Well, I should probably start off by saying that I have known for a number of years that my husband has been unfaithful to me. It started out with him joining dating sites, looking for woman to "chat" with online, but of course it didn't stay that way for long. The chatting became lunch dates, which eventually turned into one night stands (he never met the same woman more then once). And I will admit that I know all of this because I snooped. It was wrong of me, but I knew something was going on and I had to find out. I confronted my husband about it and we had long discussions, etc etc. Things got better for a while, but after a few months he returned to all of his regular dating/sex sites. I tired to ignore it, thinking that I could learn to deal AS LONG as he wasn't sleeping around, and still giving me the attention as well. However in the past few months he has been spending all of his free time on his computer, and I know it's chatting with these women. Most nights he doesn't even come to bed until almost 3am. He won't kiss, hug, touch me, hell I can't even remember the last time he said I love you... I feel like this is truly the end of my marriage. If we didn't have children I know I would have left a long time ago, but now it just doesn't seem that simple. I don't want to stay miserable for the rest of my life, but I don't want to just give up either. Any suggestions?