my husband and i visited a friend in ca. our first family trip ever! we stayed at my best friends house. she has a roommate we have never met. the 3rd night i went to bed with our 2 boys and my husband stayed up with the roommate drinking wine. i felt nervous about this, as i felt he had an attraction to her. i had never been worried about him straying before, but i felt uncomfortable with the way they hit it off so well. i went out to check on them and asked my husband what they were doing, (out of her ear shot), he made me feel confident that i was being silly and nothing was going on. i went to bed, but minutes later i felt very sick and needed to check on them again. i walked in on them. they were on the couch, he was on top of her, i saw the look of ecstasy on her face as they were making out. i am sure if i waited a few more minutes clothes would be off! he said it was the first time, yes, the first time he decides to cheat on me is when i am in the next room with our kids in a good friends house! he says it was just a kiss, i saw it, i saw him on top of her, i saw her face! she was really into it as i am sure he was, but i only saw the back of his head. tell me i am not over reacting. i am being accused of ending an 11 year union cause my husband "kissed a girl"