Its been weeks since i ve posted, ive been real busy. There's been great news & improvements, but last night all of that was shattered. The good news is that my H might be getting a position out of town, hence us relocating & "starting over". I felt like that is exactly what we needed. He has been really open & admitting that he has a problem, but that he wants that to change & move forward. It was like a new man emerged & i was very happy with that awakening.
Last night we were together when he got a Private call, he answered and it was the OW yelling at him asking him if he was crazy. He hung up the phone. I started questioning him- as i had no idea that she or he were contacting each other. he told me this story (which i dont know if it is true or not) that she has been texting & calling him private, harassing him, threatening him, etc. But that still didnt explain why she called calling him crazy. He said that she had been texting him earlier in the day. I knew something wasnt quite right about his story. We got in a big argument about the fact that the simple solution to that problem would be to change his number. That we she could no longer reach him. Still, i knew something wasnt right.
This morning i text the OW asking her to please stop harassing my H. It turns out that her cell phone is turned off and she can only receive texts she cant send any. Which is true because when i called her number it was not in service. That discredits my H's story that she is the one texting him. She cant send texts, only receive them. She is using somebody else's cell phone with no texting. Soon after i text her she called me 3 times which i missed because i was in the shower. She left me a voicemail saying that it is my H contacting her.