Reposting this from Sexual Health:
I feel very unusual amongst my friends. They keep talking about how great sex is. I have had sex before, but I don't see what the big deal is. It doesn't feel good. I was expecting it to be painful the first couple times because I was told it might. Even after that, however, it just doesn't feel good. There is no pleasure to it. I was told it's not being done right. I have tried different positions, more foreplay, less foreplay...no matter what I do, it just does not feel good. It's not bad, just not pleasurable. I don't enjoy it. It feels like a chore that I have tried making better by changing up how I do it, but in the end, it's still a chore. Please tell me I'm not alone.