Hi, Im new here to this message board. Looks like a great place to be. By the way my screen name is supposed to be sweetangelnoel. Anyway on to why im here. Recently I met a great man on line, he's 40, lives in california, unemployed ( he's on workers comp), lives with his mother and goes to school. He's a bit opionated, bossy and down right hateful sometimes, then he can turn around and be the sweetest man on earth. I'm 30, live in oklahoma, work 2 jobs, getting ready to finish school, i'm quiet and reserved, like to stay in, and im not very experienced and he tends to bring that up a lot almost daily. The problem is its only been about a month and he is already wanting to come stay with me for 5 days, he wants me to pay half the trip ( which i wouldn't mind doing if i felt comfortable with him coming down), i get nearly sick when he brings it up, all the time. I need some advice on how to handle this, im not sure I even want to continue with this but I'm not sure how to get out of it with out problems. any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you and I'm sorry it is so long, just had to get it out.