I emailed a guy about two weeks ago and he emailed me back pretty fast.
His profile was very long, but very charming. We had a lot of the same values and wants in life. Liked a lot of the same things. It was very direct, very charming. A little quirky, but I like that.
He called me, he seemed very nice, funny, smart. We have a similar sense of humor. He told me about his kids, his job, asked me a lot of questions. After having read his profile and talked to him, I was definitely willing to meet.
We met last Monday, he was a little late because he was taking his parents to the airport (how cute). We talked, laughed, it was great...
And then...he starts getting all "hands on". A little bit was cute, but then it started to be too much. He walked me to my car and started getting a little too hands on again. I stopped him and told him he had to 'earn' these things...
Then he decides I'm his 'girl'. He starts to call me every day, but wants phone sex! I NEVER gave any indication that this is something that I am into. I don't even like it. He calls me and goes on and on, very explicitly, so I hung up. He called back, I didn't pick up and he left a message asking what happened. After 20 minutes I called back and explained that he had gone too far, I didn't even know him, if he'd like to get to know ME we could do that, but this is not cool. He chilled a little bit, then I told him good night.
He called a few more times, we played phone tag. Then Sunday night, the same thing...he started in on the explicit talk, I asked him to chill, finally had to hang up on him. He again called back, and I restated the issue. Then he started up again!
He told me he wasn't having much luck on Match...now I know why!!! The guy was married for 18 years...now I think I know why he's divorced!