Not sure how I can muster the patience I need...I want to know RIGHT NOW if he is the right guy for me.
He is nice looking and articulate and educated and handy and practical and has a sense of humor. He and his wife seem to have had a disconnect of personality, not a major disaster (she is burning through her assets in a big hurry and he lives very carefully, just like me). He seems to be really into me (always a plus). He is a total gentleman.
He is 9 years older than me. Is that too much?
My heart and head and hormones are all in agreement. Keep him!
I'm trying to compare how I feel/think now with the way I felt with other guys in the past...but I can't really remember...only that when the picture develops fully, there is more info that is a deal breaker.
It would be too much to be believed if all this OLD finally paid off.