Finally met one guy at Starbucks yesterday afternoon. He bought my coffee (mentioned something about being raised as a gentlemen) I was planning on just paying for it myself. I was expecting him to show up 15 min. later.
I sort of feel that maybe he was unimpressed by me, Maybe I am just being critical of myself.
The conversation seemed easy. Not many pauses, maybe one or two when we seemed to be collecting our thoughts. We talked for about 3 hours. So is that a good thing? I was expecting after 9 pretty lengthy emails and one phone conversation that went on for about an hour and a half that we might not have anything to talk about.
There were no hugs, I said that he had my number, and then he said that I had his as well.... Is he expecting me to call? We didn't immediately set up anything for seeing each other again. Should I send a follow-up email? Just to say, Thanks for the coffee, it was really nice meeting you. I thought I could extend an invite to a Game Night I am having this week. Oh and maybe I should mention that I realized I told him the wrong road to get to the interstate? (Said 8th Avenue, and it was actually 5th)
We will probably just end up as friends. Which is okay. The first meeting seemed to go well, but now I think I am starting to second guess everything.