I have met this man on ym 3weeks ago and I admit I really like him, his thoughtful ways and jolly personality, which is a refreshing break from the dullness I felt since my breakup with a long time bf a few months ago. We are on different countries, and the subject about meeting up is sometimes brought up. We have made out online, but I was always the one to stop from getting too intimate. He knows I have boundaries when it comes to online sex. He said he will wait until I am ready. Lately he has been telling me that he loves me. He said it is only this time that he wakes up 2 in the morning to talk to somebody. He wouldn't do it to anybody else because he really loves his sleep. I really like him but it seems falling in love is a bit too early. Does he say that only to get what he wants? (online sex) We are both 33. He asks me about my plans in the future. And in our conversations, he mentions jobs that may be available for me in his country. I didn't want him to think I'm too eager, so I tell him the plans I have for myself, without mentioning that I am considering moving there should things progress. But last night, when he told me again that he loves me, I was disturbed. I got scared that he might find somebody close enough to catch his fancy. He always calls me hot, and I felt if he meets somebody out there who is just as hot, he would disappear. I told him that, and he said he doesn't know what the future would unfold for him, only that right now he knows what he feels for me. And one booboo I made was to ask him to tell me if he finds that girl. He said he will and I felt like I pissed him off. Any thoughts on this? I know it is too early, but I can't help thinking about this guy.