This question has come up many times concerning OLD. Maybe the guys on this board could give the gals a real answer to it. I know I'm tired of scratching my head and guessing at answers. So here's the question...
If you have met someone, even though it went well, but you wouldn't be asking them out again, why can't you just say that???
Nobody likes rejection, but it's easier to deal with the truth then the unknown. I know guys feel the same way even if they don't want to admitt it. I have received more "thank yous" from guys that I have told I wasn't interested in. They said they appreciated my honesty.
So, I hope there will be some guys brave enough to express their thoughts.