Ok, I'm on POF over a year now, and have met some of the men, but haven't had that connection I'm hoping for. The last few months I began messaging with a POF guy who is very creative in his writing, but he doesn't wish to meet me, even though his profile says looking for long term. He also changes up his profile making comments that refer to something we talked about. He's ok to message back if it's about something creative or unusual topics of discussion, if I ask personal questions, or mention meeting, he evades answer all together. A couple of times he did tell me I should find someone else, yet, he still adds to his profile some cryptic thing that seems to refer to me.
Now, logically I know it's just a mind game thing. But we're in our 40's. May be I'm not up with the gaming ways of people as I was married a long time before this OLD stuff.
Has this type of thing ever happened to someone else here? Ironically I read another man's profile just recently and he lamented about a woman doing similar to him...for almost 3 years! Sheesh. What do those people get out of that?