I live in Hawaii and I get a fair amount of email from men from other states and even other countries that will be visiting the islands and want to strike up a conversation. So far I have never answered any of them. It seems to me that I would be at best a tour guide and at worst, well there seems to be a lot of possibilites for worse. But, some of them are intriguing. Should I answer the ones that interest me or keep to my policy of locals only?