Wowee! This is weird! But, I can learn new tricks! I hope all of you got thru your day a bit stronger and wiser! I have a plan for this week! I am a pack rat!I hate throwing things away so, I plan to box up everything my XOM gave me! (NOT MUCH!) and send it to him! I know it will send him my final message! DONE DEAL! So much went unsaid on my part! I've thought about this for over six months and it's what is right for me. He does not live with his wife so I won't be hurting her! I will be purging the last bit of him from my life! It's all been stored away and needs to go anyway! So, this is my final hurrah! Just been too lazy to do it before now! Haven't been trying to hold onto it! REALLY! Say BYE BYE Jerk wad! Thanks for the lousey memories! And watch out for the rat trap! LOL!