This may be a fairly common occurance, i'm not sure , but my husband really hates his job. I am a stay-at-home mom and we have 3 small children (4,3,&1). He makes a good living which allows me to stay home with the kids but all he does is complain about work. Its starting to worry me. He is upset all the time and I dare not even ask how his day went for fear he will just go off on me. He is a very good husband and father and I dont think he would do anything crazy like just quit his job but I really need some advice. I try very hard to be sympathetic and listen to what he has to say but I end up just feeling bad, like its my fault he has to work. Before we met he was a manager at a bar, leading a very care-free life. We've been married 5 yrs and have 3 kids and now he has to work a very grown-up job. Someone help, I need some advice or even just a pleasant conversation. Thanks!