I am confused. IF there are things a guy fantasizes about and he knows his mate would do them why doesn't he ask her?
I was recently viewing some of DH's porn. Really it is just a bunch of different girls taking care of themself. First off he didn't tell me he had made the tape, which kinda perturbed me. I know he has porn, and it has always been understood between us that porn for him is his way of enjoying somethings that are over my comfort line. He knows exactly where my comfort line is. Way past this. What I don't understand is why he never asked me to do it for him? At this point in time if he did now that I have said something it won't have the same effect, but if he has said something along the lines of I wanna see you get yourself off, I would have felt so sexy. Now I feel like it is because I am not as sexy as those girls. Yes I know my own self esteem is MY problem, but he has always sworn it was the act in porno, not the girl.
So guys why wouldn't you ask your wife to do someting that you obviously like and you have no reason to think she'd reject?