I'm writing this in order to 1. vent and 2. ask for advice
First the vent: I'll try to make this short. My new hubby's ex has for years has been unstable. By this I mean she has harrassed, stalked, threatened both of us. At its worse there has been police involvement. My husband has 'been allowed' to see his 2 children periodically. His ex refuses to follow their legal child agreement ( they have joint custody) He's not allowed to call the house to speak to his children, he can only use her cell which she shuts off or it goes to VM. He hasn't seen them in 3 months. Its now going before the courts again. We are struggling finacially as his ex gets MORE money in Spousal support , than what I make in a yr. She got their marital home, sold it and made a HUGE profit. Now lives with her 'fianace' who makes six figures. She is now asking for more money . Well heres where I ask for the advice part:
He pays her 'daycare fees' and 'extraordinary'...fees for extras the kids may need. BUT she DOESN"T work! never has. She also says she has no money. Here the kicker. Shes posted a profile on another website where she proceeds to tell the world what a terrible person
my husband is. She also tells the world that she's taking a trip with all the kids to the carribean to get married and is having a new house built in the fall. Do I show this to my husband? stress him out even more. Will he think i'm a nut case for even looking and finding this info on her? or do I forget about it even if possibly this info could be important in court?
I know I'm angry, hurt, even jealous that we have nothing and she waves her money in our faces ( she's told my husband that we're losers because we can't afford to put my children in lessons)
Thanks for listening...do I need a therapist? I'm just so angry