So I went out with IT guy last night. I had butterflies beforehand, but once we sat down to dinner - it was normal. No flush or rush of emotions. Just nice, intelligent conversations with lots of laughs. He's sweet, sincere and nice from what I can see. Active and healthy...and I am attracted to him :) Then a walk...where he was asking me what next? So I turned to him and said "hmm...twice I've picked the day/time/restaurant...I am sensing a lack of decision making ability here - its YOUR neighbourhood...where would you like to go?" Then he threw out a couple of ideas...I picked one...and as we were off, he explained that he has been living spur of the moment. Doing whatever suited him whenever it suited him. Fair enough...but...he gave me his number and told me to call anytime I wanted to go for dinner/do the cheesecake thing we talked about/etc...so its up to me AGAIN! And no kiss or anything - hope he wasn't expecting ME to make the move. Grr...
And earlier that day, my pilot friend called me at work to see what I was doing this w/end. Pilot & I met at an online dating thing 2 yrs ago, but do to our schedules and 40 min drive apart, we never met. Since then - we have maintained a friendship and met a few times. He asked me if I wanted to go for a ride in the helicopter sunday...said he'd show me a neat waterfall and pack a lunch. (Gee, that sounds kind of romantic for friends, no?) Then the KICKER...he's thinking of taking a job teaching...so he would have a set schedule with lots more free time...UGH.
So how do I stick to ONE guy and concentrate on ONE guy when I never have ONE guy in the picture? I don't know enough about either of these guys to make a CHOICE between the two. I like them both. Shy brought up a good point about concentrating on one...and I had every intention of doing that with IT guy...but now...I don't know...I'd like to go on the helicopter ride sunday...???