LOL...shy/thim...you two are funny!!
You think IT guy just wants to be friends b/c I am tempted to go on a date w/someone else? Quite the contraire. IT guy has made it clear the only reason he hasn't settled down b/c he has yet to find a best friend AND lover. We can't know yet if I fit that bill...when we were having dinner, we shared our summer plans. WOW. They were identical. We both plan to do camping around some hiking trails on w/ends...trip to Vegas...when we were talking about what food we'd pack...it felt like a couple for a moment.
I think I got scared. I'm liking him too much - looking forward to doing things in the summer with him? ON A SECOND DATE?
Settling down means giving up opportunities like flying away with someone else. Am I ready for that? Well, I must be - b/c I cancelled this morning ;-)
Focus on one guy this time. Change things up and maybe I'll get different results...
Thanks for the feedback, Go.