This is probably going to sound silly. But I'm in my 30s (single - happily) and work at home. My problem is that my circle of friends is nearly nil. Either my friends have moved away, or we've grown apart (from college) or (the majority) are married (ie., no partying). I can't figure out how to find people (without a women thinking I'm looking to pick her up ). Anyone on here in their late 20s or 30s (I'm 36) and live in NJ?