On a side note I have been talking on the phone with this guy that I met 2 months ago and the conversations have become more frequent (like every day) and for longer usually at least an hour. He still lives at home and will be for a few more years b/c he is going to college. I am fine with him because he is doing something with his life and right now to accomplish his goals this is what he has to do. I also just met this other man while I was out this weekend. He seemed really nice and I took his number. I can't decide if I want to call him because he lives at home, doesn't have a steady job or going to college. He is also only 22. Not that that's a big difference between us but, let's face it it can be. Am I being silly and just follow my heart and give it a try or should I let my standards be the decision maker and avoid all the past relationship mistakes?