In a nutshell, we have been married for 16 years. We have always had a decent sex life and great emotional marriage where we communicate well. This time I'm struggling. Six years ago as a fulfillment for a "fantasy" I had sex with my husbands best friend (they are still best friends), while he watched. It was fun at the time and a big turn on for everyone involved. I made it clear to him in the beginning and after that it was a one time deal. To this day he can't have sex without talking about me and other men, he constantly wants me with other men. He even talks about dreams he has about me and other men. He makes comments about me and other men all the time.And he gets off on this! I've told him how sick I am of him "including" other men in our relationship constantly and that it's not a turn on any more. Most guys wouldn't want to think about their wives and other men, but mine can't get enough of it. Is it that or is he really just interested in watching other men in general (-: I'm starting to wonder. Guys, help me, explain how to get it through to him that if I was going to have sex with another guy, he's not going to be there,(which I'm not) but I'm that sick of hearing about it.