Basically they said how bad it was, how it interrupted the couple's intimacy and gave the child a false idea of his/her place in the parent's relationship...
But what scared me was that she said that parents should never have sex with the child in the room... that even if the baby was asleep, you were doing "tremendous damage" to him!!!
Please don't judge me, but I truly thought that if the baby was asleep, it was ok!! I mean, the baby sleeps in his own bed now, and we are not loud or anything, and we keep ourselves under the covers just in case.
Do you think it's harmful??