So he got permission today to work from home for 6mts he says so that we can work on fixing us. the trouble with it the resentment has already started and hes not even here yet. He’s fixated on the scarafices that he is having to make. The things he has to give up.. the relationship with the OW. He already blames me for everything that this is now also my fault. I didn’t ask him to do this he decided it’s what needs to be done and maybe it is. But I have trouble with it when he is so angry about it that it won’t make anything better. He has faught with me everynight this week. Balmeing me.. he got mad when he thought he figured it out.. that he could let all the stuff from our history go but still continue his “friendship” with the OW.. but when I told him that was not ok he got mean/ugly again verbally attacking me.
He is so caught up in the poor me my life sucks that I don’t see the next 6mts being good for either of us. there are so many issues. I don’t understand why he won’t just walk away. I have given him every chance to do that. But he is still here. It’s almost like he wants to stick around so he can make me miserable. I feel like I’m being trapped into a worse situation that what we are already in. that he will resent me more and more each day that his is stuck here at home with me. That it’s not what he wants he just needs to figure it out himself.