Well, me and my ex were together for 5 years. We started dating March of 2005 and we got married December of 2008. Well, this past March, he was never coming home. He came home maybe for like a couple of days then just leave again. So we split up and were legally seperated. Well, at the of May, we started to talk again and the next weekend he moved out of her house and we got back together. For a month, I thought things have changed and was always tense. In July, he left me high and dry and took everything. Come to find out, he moved back in with the girl he had an affair on me with and they are boyfriend and girlfriend. Well, just yesterday, I got news that she is pregnant. Granted I had a breakdown because that could of been me. I am currently getting the divorce going, but it will take 4-6 months to get finalized. Should I take him for everything when we go to court or what?? Also, I just need some words of wisdom on how I can get over him and how to move on with my life.