for anyone that doesnt know my history..May 2008 find dirty texts sent to my husband by his old highschool friend..Nothing physical she is 20 hrs away.. But he hid the texts and I foundout after i looked on cell, I had a gut feeling.He cuts all ties to her upon my finding out..
Feb 2010 I have another gut feeling..a really bad feeling.. I check his cell phone and it is too clean, I know he is erasing everything..Check cell phone bill and he was texting my friend and also an ex 20 to 100 times daily.... He stopped the texting cause if he didnt I would have walked right out the door..He keeps them on FB which annoys me and hurts but, at least I can see what is being said and it is public...
Things have been going okay..I have not had any bad gut feelings...I still check though...today something caught my eye...We both have blackberrys the same one...and I just realized today that we have gmail chat IM... and I see that is logging on and off during the day, so he must be using it..problem is it isnt me he is iming so who is he isntant messaging???? One of these two girls from Feb??
There is good news..I am one step ahead..after D day in Feb... he changed his passwords and by watching him I have foundout his password to all his accounts and he doesnt know I have them...I actually like it this way... that way if he ever does this to me again he wont know he has to be careful or cover his tracks..I can now get into his yahoo, gmail and facebook accounts!! I could do it by picking up his phone he stays logged into these accounts but he would always know I looked...Now that I can go on the computer it will be less obvious to him...I havent looked in a long time after finding nothing, but I am having that urge to look and he wont be expecting it..
Should I check those accounts???