I signed into H computer... and found an adult meet up site for sex site that he joined. Now since I did this without his knowledge (he had a password on there that was easy enough to decode) I don't feel like I can bring it up. But how do you keep something like that secret?? We don't go back to the counselor together until the 30th (the doc is out of town).
I knew he looked at porn and I didn't care... as long as he wasn't doing it with someone else. Now his profile says that he has sex everyday (we've not had sex since I found out about OW). So, did he lie about that on the profile or is he lying to my face about not seeing her anymore?! Or is he just using this as a porn site? I'm so confused and disgusted... and now I'm wondering who he ever was! :-(
I was already going to bring up at MC on the 30th that if he wasn't sure about this I was going to ask him to move out for awhile. It's hard for me to have him around and have no emotions from him.
The only reason I went on his computer originally was to see if he was still emailing her or if he had any recent chats (as I just found out 3 days ago they stick around for a long time! lol). He didn't have anything there (and since the computer was password protected he would have been able to keep stuff on there).
Am I thinking too much into this? Is it innocent porn... or, is there something more?