I recently got married to a man 10 years older than me (he is 50). I have known him for the past three years. I have two small children 8 and 10 and one in college who is 20. This is my second marriage after 18 years and his 3rd marriage after his second for 18 years. We recently got into a big argument about him telling me or saying the words about fine and good looking girls at a place he went. I got really angry since he says things like this randomly and I don't like to hear it. He then proceeds to shut me out and say I tell him he is worthless, he's no good, etc. I have NEVER told him that. I love him to death and we never have words toward each other. He seems to me he has a problem not communicating and sharing his feelings. He take all of this like he has done everything bad to me and I think this was some of the same issues he had in his last marriage. I'm an open honest woman and very strong. I don't yell or anything but I do and am direct when I am upset or he's hurt my feelings. Now I'm scared to tell him anything. It seems when I say anything about him, he takes it like I'm telling him all his bad traits and I'm not. What and how should I handle this man? I know I'm not perfect but I don't want to be shut out from what my issues are with him. I thought communicating is good and now I'm having second thoughts. Any suggestions?