I just wanted to post an intro so when/if I rely to a post you guys don’t think who the heck is that, lol. My name is Mellissa. I am 31 my DH is 35. I have 1 living son named Alex, he’s 6. On Oct.22 2010 my 2nd son Matthew Neal was born an angel @ 21 weeks. We aren’t TTC as of yet. But we will soon and I find all the info on the board very helpful. I never TTC just left it up to nature before, well that is TTC but never charted or checked CM. But with Matthew’s death I want to be more prepared and aware this time around. I don’t blame myself but I want to make sure I do everything by the book if I do have another. I never thought what happened to Matthew would (nobody does but it put things in perspective for me)so I want to be proactive in TTC incase a takes a while. I will just lurk for a while but again wanted you to know I’m here. I know I don’t understand a lot of what you ladies are going thru yet. So I won’t give out any advice but may post a P&PT/thinking of you reply every now and then.
I’m not charting yet because my cycle hasn’t returned since Matthew. I did check my cervix for the 1st the other day, lol. I don't understand why it's so uncofortable when the doctor does, it wasn't bad when I did it!