what does it mean when my friend tells me that he doesn't want me to get hurt (and explained in tears why recently) by being with me but then he treats me like we're dating? We have sex, he makes me dinner, gives me money, offers to pay when we go to the store, he opens my car door for me, holds and kisses my hands, gives me messages, tells me he loves me, asks me if I would mind being a military wife ( because he's trying to join the navy), jokes around when I mention a guys name and says "who is he? I'll kill him!" but then tells me things like if I join the military I don't think I could be in a long distance relationship and I'm not responsible enough to be a husband and a father? One minute that he is dead set in his decision to never allow himself to fall in love with me by recently he said that he's fallen in love with me? He tells me that we're both not ready to be in a relationship yet bed we both just got out of one yet when I ask him if he wants me to quit talking to him in order for us to get our space, he's like " no, no! I don't want you to go away". I really do love this man and want to be with him when the time is right. Men... Please give me some insight.