So I have Crohn's disease and had surgery a few years ago, now the scar tissue is wrapped around my fallopian tubes and I can only get pregnant with IVF. Last year we got a loan to try the IVF. We went through the steps and they told us our dates for everything, all they needed was the money. So we went to the bank and were told that as of August 1 they could no longer offer loans for this type of thing. Anyway, it has been really hard. My sister no longer speaks to me because of this (more to that story) and I don't know where to go. Do I belong on the IVF board or infertility board? We are trying to save the money but it will take us awhile. Please help me, I have nobody.