I am new here and hoping to better understand a man I am trying to date. I am 34 and have been divorced for about 3 years. I recently let a friend persuade my to try online dating. I starting emailing with this guy we'll call "B" about a week ago and he asked if I would be interested in meeting for a drink this last Friday (couple of days ago). We did and we seemed to hit it off well. He is a very nice guy and conversation was comfortable. After the meeting he texted to let me know that he is definitely interested in getting to know me better. Last night he invited me to his place to watch a movie and I agreed. One thing led to another and I am ashamed to say that we had sex. We both decided to try to relax that it isn't a big deal. He said he would text me today after the football games and I said no problem since I had a lot to do today.
Here's where I am confused. I got a text from him this evening that said:
"Hi :) I hope you had a good day. Just wanted to say hi. Also wanted to let you know that I think we should take it nice and slow. Hopefully you are a fan of that too :) If ok with you lets meet for a drink or get coffee towards the end of the week."
No big deal as far as taking it slow. I definitely want to slow down. My concern is the last part. He wants to get a drink or coffee towards the end of the week.