Thought I would stop by since I now have a 4 year old. I have 4 kids and she is the baby so she's a mess, but a very good kid, just whiney, demanding, moody, etc...oh....that must be the female in her, lol...just kidding, but she does get it honestly. I haven't put her in school and don't plan to until she is 5, if I do then. We do learning at home and I have her in ballet. She had to take Valentines to her class Tuesday and she wrote her name on them by herself. She loves for me to read to her and we go to the library every other Tuesday before ballet class. She knows her ABC's, can count past 10, starts getting mixed up after that. I feel she knows what she needs to at her age. We just need to work on learning her letters and numbers and get her counting up so she can start reading simple words and do simple math...which I feel she can do simple math now. I would love to hear what you all are doing with your 4 year olds that I may need to do as well. Oh, we also love crafts and baking, she is a GREAT helper!!!