Hi all... This is not a huge issue, but it bugs me. I have some long-term friends who are really great people and I love them dearly, although we haven't seen each other in a long time (these are old friends from school). We used to all live in close proximity but after getting married/jobs/kids, we've become spread out and probably only talk a few times a year, but still hold them in my "top friends" list. Anyway, I do my best to keep in touch, but it's not my strong suit. That said, I rarely if ever hear from these friends either, but when we do happen to touch base, I always get grief for "not calling". HELLO?!