So....how do you deal with your anger and betrayal when your ex does not think he has done any wrong?

After being with this controlling man for 23 years, I am now finding out all sort of lies such as he frequented massage parlors and got "happy endings" as well as 1 confirmed affair with an ex secretary.

The icing on the cake was that when I searched my soul and decided for divorce, he claims that he was sexually abused...hmmm never in 23 years did he ever mention that to me.

I can't even vent to him for he feels that he has done no wrong.

As if that isn't enough, I am now in the midst of a custody battle and now having to support myself for the first time in my adult life.