I have been on this board in the past and I hate that I am here again. My husband has already cheated on me twice. The first time I found out from his behavior and email. The second time he finally told me once we seperated. This time it was with my cousin.

We began hanging out recently and it was so much fun; she is married and we are married and we both have a kid. We were made for each other and that is how much fun we were having. And then Jordyn (my cousin) and Joe ( my husband) were flirting too much. And then Jordyn mentioned that we should switch partners. That is not my thing or my husbands ( I believed anyway) but they were both for it and even though her husband and I were against it, the jokes and flirting escalated. They began sneaking away for small amounts of time and then the texting became less than innocent.

I asked for a break from hanging out with them to focus on Joe and I because their texting and flirting was hurting our relationship. He refused and left for his parents. A few days later, I found out he was staying with them. He husband works alot. It was inevitable. They have been sleeping together for two weeks and even doing it next to her husband.

I am beyond disbelief and I dont know what my next move will be. How many times can a person be cheated on and for it to be ok?