I found out about 5 weeks ago that my husband of 10 years cheated with our neighbor. She is much older and also married and I don't think he ever would have told me had her husband not figured it out and told me. We've lived 2 houses from this woman for 8 years and I don't really know her because, to be hosenst, she's trashy and not the kind of person I would ever associate with. I'm having a huge issue with having to see her several times a day and it's become so bad that I'm having panic attacks frequently. It's making everything much harder to cope with and God knows it hard enough to begin with. I haven't decided if I want to stay or not but I have to admit that he's being really incredible about everything. Our house is for sale now because I know I can't stay here for good but how do I deal with her being right in my face every time I step out my front door?