My ex-husband was the best at giving oral sex. New husband won't even go there. We've talked about it (as much as he will) and he said it just won't ever happen.

Every time we fool around my mouth will end up on his penis at some point. I don't want to be mean and deprive him, but what do I do? I've showered right before, I've suggested flavored lubricants, toys, etc. I don't think I can live the rest of my life without receiving oral sex. I'm actually considering having an affair.

Someone help please...