Hi all....quick background...me and BF used to date as teenagers, lost touch, found each other over a year ago. Problem was he was married. He kept telling me things were bad and he wanted to leave, we talked but never did anything physical. I told him I didn't want to be an affair. Then one day he left her and we started talking more then begin to date. During the last year of dating he has left 3 times, everytime 99% sure he went back to his DW. After the last time he swore he wanted to be with me and I asked him to file for divorce then. He did, and for about 2 months things had been good. Lately I have started getting that gut feeling again that something wasn't right. So today I did some snooping again....found they've been emailing again. Found where he asked her if she thought they could still make this work, she of course said yes. Found that he emails her every night to say sweet dreams. He told her not to do anything with "the stupid divorce papers" and he asked if he could come see her this week (she lives 2 hrs away). So I'm ready to just tell him to go see her and not to come back, but there's that part of me that wants to bust him out in a way that will leave him speechless. Make sense? Any thoughts on how I can confront him with all this?