Just so you'll know, match.com makes it hard to cancel. I'm pretty tech-savvy, so imagine my surprise when I kept getting winks and emails. I figured they were just trying to get me to sign back up, but it happened again, so I hid my profile (which I shouldn't have to do since I'm no longer paying). I got another wink today, so I went through the process of cancelling again. We'll see if it "sticks" this time.
Anyway, to those of you who might see a guy online who you are dating and claims he removed his profile--he may really have tried!! Plus, for all of you who send emails and don't get replies, you could be sending an email to someone who is no longer a member.
Just wanted to help.