I have been popping in and out lately. Justl urking mostly.... BUT I am sooo back. hehehe!
I am really happy to announce that ONE of the 3 major steps to TTC was met TODAY!
My MIL has always been SUPER against kids. And she says constantly that 'one is enough'. Well today she and I spent a lot of time together (which isnt unusual) BUT the conversation we had was. I basically told her that we will be having another and that was that. Then we proceeded to have about a 20 min conversation on BABY names. In particular boy names. :-) So now that she is 'okay' with things this is one major obstacle OVERCOME!
The main reason for this being one of the three final steps before TTC is because I know it makes DH REALLY uneasy not having her on board.
This brings me to step two. DH on board.... he is just really eneasy about it. BUT he was SUPER uneasy before DD and I kinda pushed and we went for it and BAM he was happy. I am not doing that this time BUT I am not letting the idea go. I am thinking about getting my IUD removed this month or next (which is step 3). And then trying to watch my cycles closely for a few months (and use that as BC as well as withdrawl which worked for us for a year prior to TTC our DD).
This will give him time to get used to the idea. And me time to work on getting healthy. Soooo we shall see. I wil def be around more now that we have our TTC date getting closer and I have baby fever BAD! hehe!