So my boyfriend has LL. It's hurtful to me, etc., all the bad things everyone else has written about having a partner with LL.
My story is this: He is 29, has a history of slight depression, has been on meds our whole relationship (2 years), and constantly comes up with excuses (he is too tired from school, work, etc., but even if there's no pressure in those areas it doesn't change). He says he's always had LL, but it hasn't been a problem before because his other girlfriends also had LL (or didn't complain). Unless I practically overtly state that I want to have sex, he "doesn't notice" my come-ons (coming to bed naked, stroking him, talking about new sexual positions and things I'd like to try in bed..).