Has anyone ever used spyware to read actual texting? Just discovered my DH of 35+ yes has been texting friend of his whom I also know and then deletes from phone. Been going on for 6 weeks and I stumbled on it just now by accident. He hasn't said a word that they've been communicating. She's younger and single with a boyfriend. He had affair in the past 5 hrs ago. His behavior has been very distant for the past 4 weeks or so. In the meantime I'm just waiting and observing and lining my ducks in a row so I won't be financially devastated just in case. Been thru this before. I said I'd never resort to snooping again and here I am!!! I feel I have to so Im not blindsided. Any advice is greatly appreciated.