I would like to hear from parents that have dealt with a young-adult son or daughter (over 18) that refuses to follow any rules whatsoever. I am looking for options other than "throw them out" as I have tried this and it put us in an impossible situation. I am talking about ignoring any curfews and staying out all night, smoking pot, hanging out with the wrong people, getting a tattoo, numerous speeding tickets, chronic lying, not helping at all around the house, super messy, doesn't take care of her car, won't pay for car, insurance, etc., stealing money...I think that covers most of it!! Except she is causing constant drama in our home and making my two younger children resent her. The only option I have found is to throw her out, as she is a legal adult and won't do anything unless she wants to. I need some real advice....what have others done in this situation??