Ok so I never orgasmed with a partner. I read everywhere you have to do it to yourself first before anyone else can. Even though I got that "feel like I will pee on myself" feeling with a partner before I decided to try it solo. I got a vibe, and I get to a point where my legs tingle and twitch, I feel it get real intense but once my legs start twitching, I cannot force myself to go on. I feel like I can't take it and I can't keep going. I tried and tried. I had a similar reaction with a partner. I got that "gonna pee myself" feeling, legs twitching, and couldn't take it no more and stopped him. I can only think to compare it to being tickled. You just want to stop being tickled cuz it builds up so much. I dont know if this makes sense to anyone else but someone please tell me if this is normal and how to get around this. I feel like I need a partner to tie me down so I can't stop them is the only way to get there.