Hi, I'm new here. I Just started dealing with my sexual abuse issues (for real) this past April/ May. What I mean by that is I have always known it happened, I have just been able to look at it and not tell myself it didn't matter AND I've been seeing things I thought were *normal* in a whole new light. I was taken by surprise by the multitude of flashbacks that have been happening. And the tears that don't stop for days once they start. I've been in therapy for YEARS but my old therapists just glossed over it. When things came to a head this Spring I had to get a new therapist. NOT the best time to switch therapists but it was necessary.