I am new to the message board scene but thought maybe I could get some thoughts on my situation.
My H & I have been married for 23 years & have children. We have of course have had our issues over that time but nothing like this. I found out a couple of weeks ago, after an arguement that he went to a singles site & contacted a women. They exchanged information & several text messages were sent. I found out & confronted him. I am completely devasted by this. He has apologized over & over & swears he will do anything to try to make this work. He takes full responsiblity for his actions but says he was feeling very loney, neglected & angry that I didn't have time for him. He said he woke up the next day & felt horrible, deleted all the text & did not respond when she tried to contact him the next day, phone records verify this. I am so hurt & confused. He must have wanted me to find out b/c he used a joint email to first contact her. I am torn on rather this can work out. Was it a wake up call & a sign that he needs more from me or was it a message that he really could careless about us.