I find it really hard to get my girlfriend's involved with my relationship problems since they all know him well. We dated for a year, took about 4 months apart and have been together since May of this year, and are already living together (i know, but it was the right choice at the time)
The other night i woke up to his phone buzzing, he was asleep and didnt notice but i checked it for him, his phone was open and was about 2 AM...it was his ex girlfriend replying to his text from about half an hour earlier. He only said "Hey" but when she replied she told him she was in the area "and it's a good time for a visit if you wanna". Of course I was upset, I tried to wake him but he was in a deep sleep...i checked the fb on his phone to see if they had plans to meet up since there were no earlier text messages (he must have deleted them) and i didn't find anything to her but i did see a message to another girl earlier this month at around 130AM just saying "thinking of you"