Ok, so I finally got my husband to listen to me about my concerns and what does he do? He admits that my rapist contacted their mutual friend as soon as he saw they were speaking to one another on FB. I asked him why he didn't tell me that information sooner so that I would have known my instincts were correct. His response? "I didn't think that much about it." That did it. I started crying and when I started I couldn't stop.My spirit just felt as though it had been snapped in half. I hate those tears, the ones that feel wrenched from your very soul as though they are the last thing you have to hold on to & you don't want to let that go.
I literally cried for 3 hours straight. When I was done my husband says to me, "I'm sorry but I couldn't have known this would happen. You need to get over this." My response to him was, "I've spent well over a decade 'getting over it' well enough to