Hi there, ive been seeing a super guy since May. It started out as a friends with benefits thing cause he just got out of a 6 year relationship. However, since we met we had spent every day together pretty much. We have great times together and have now met each other's parents and families. I adore this guy, but there's a problem, his best friend and roommate is upset at my man for dating me because he doesnt think i'm attractive or slim enough. I know im a bigger chick and not exactly the best looking person, but my guy keeps telling me he values personality more than anything. My guy definitely is attractive and his ex gf was incredibly good looking and thin as well. I'm just upset because my guy isnt the smartest and is kind of naive and may fall for his best friend's advice about finding someone else. Since his friend met me, our "sleepovers" at his place have ended. My guy comes to my place. His roomie also complains that my guy isnt around enough to hang out with him so ive lost a bit of our time together. What can i do to try and save this relationship. We are dating but my guy isnt over his ex yet so im not wanting to rush anything or make him upset by bringing up my insecurities!