I met this guy online and for the past 3 weeks we have been talking on the phone and skyping every evening. He is 45, divorced one year, no children. He said his marriage just grew apart and he was not in love with her. We really seemed like a good match, and talked effortlessly. He invited me up to his house (3.5 hours a way) this weekend. I was so excited. Then the other night our conversation took a strange turn, and somehow we got on the topic of threesomes, and out of the blue he admitted to having some in his 20s and went into detail. It almost seemed as if he was trying to make me uncomfortable. Then the following night I received a text message from him that said “I am lost without you.” A few seconds later, he texted” oh sorry that was meant for my godson, I miss him.” Now, he does have a godson, but before he said he has not had much contact with. I know his Godson and the godson’s Mom has been having marital problems that he got in the middle of, but I did not ask anymore about it. The whole thing was so strange I just said look I don’t know what is going on, but I don’t want to get involved with someone who is not emotionally available. He texted me back and all he said was “I understand.” Nothing else, no explanation, no phone calls since then. How can you go from pursuing a girl for 3 weeks straight calling her up to 3x time a day and then nothing? I really liked him and was so looking forward to meeting him in person. I just don’t get it. Maybe he has something to hide, I don't know.